Another dress, experimenting with style// Year of Confidence
As stated in my mission statements for the year, I am going to try and raise my confidence to a whole new level. Not to the point where I'm cocky and get all sassy with everyone (well, I'm sassy with a lot of people as it is), but just where I start believing in myself and feeling confident enough to wear various outfits and experimenting with loads of styles.
I have been bullied more recently because of my appearance and even my own personal issues. Mainly at college. By people who I thought were my friends. Here's somethings I would like to tell you and reasons why I should be confident regardless of these horrible opinions about how I present myself:
So today, I wore a dress which is a major thing. I've worn this dress loads in the past as it's one of my favorites but haven't worn it at all this year due to me being paranoid about what people thought of me in it because it has a tiny waist-cut. Here's how I wore it
If you have been bullied recently for your appearance, all I can say is that people can be very very cruel. Chances are that you have walked through the streets and someone may have wished they looked like you. Not everyone is shallow to the point where they define people for their appearance. Girls are bitchy creatures and can get their backs up so easily because of one thing...jealousy. I'm not saying this to make myself look high and mighty because believe me, my confidence isn't great either. But people can take any feature of yours and just tear into you for it just so they feel better about themselves, as they may have a similar insecurity themself. For example, I stated that people bully me for my figure, there's nothing really wrong with it. Yeah it needs toning but again I am petite. I am of normal weight and physique for someone of my age. People twist that idea so I feel insecure. I believe it sometimes, other times I 'shake it off'. It's hard to shrug off comments like that, but the best thing you can do is tell yourself there is nothing wrong and you are beautiful. That bully has an equal amount of flaws to you, plus one, their attitude.
You ARE beautiful. If I can find positives about myself, so can you xo
I have been bullied more recently because of my appearance and even my own personal issues. Mainly at college. By people who I thought were my friends. Here's somethings I would like to tell you and reasons why I should be confident regardless of these horrible opinions about how I present myself:
- I dress like a 'man' because I personally feel comfortable in these clothes and I can't pull off crop tops or anything of that sort. I don't see the point in dressing myself up for college. I just sit at a desk working all the day, I'd rather be dressed comfortably in a baggy jumper than uber tight jeans and a pair of chunky heels while I'm working.
- I am not 'fat'. I dislike the shape of my body, but I am a size 8-10 and shop in the petite section at many shops because I am short and fairly slim. I shouldn't feel scared to wear dresses or scrub myself up nicely just because you think I am too 'fat' to wear certain clothes.
- My eyes are a rare color which doesn't make me 'deformed'. Just different.
- I don't look for your flaws, if talking about me gets you 'popular', I can only say you're attracting the wrong attention from the wrong people.
So today, I wore a dress which is a major thing. I've worn this dress loads in the past as it's one of my favorites but haven't worn it at all this year due to me being paranoid about what people thought of me in it because it has a tiny waist-cut. Here's how I wore it
Something weird is going wrong with my pupil here, dunno what though.
If you have been bullied recently for your appearance, all I can say is that people can be very very cruel. Chances are that you have walked through the streets and someone may have wished they looked like you. Not everyone is shallow to the point where they define people for their appearance. Girls are bitchy creatures and can get their backs up so easily because of one thing...jealousy. I'm not saying this to make myself look high and mighty because believe me, my confidence isn't great either. But people can take any feature of yours and just tear into you for it just so they feel better about themselves, as they may have a similar insecurity themself. For example, I stated that people bully me for my figure, there's nothing really wrong with it. Yeah it needs toning but again I am petite. I am of normal weight and physique for someone of my age. People twist that idea so I feel insecure. I believe it sometimes, other times I 'shake it off'. It's hard to shrug off comments like that, but the best thing you can do is tell yourself there is nothing wrong and you are beautiful. That bully has an equal amount of flaws to you, plus one, their attitude.
You ARE beautiful. If I can find positives about myself, so can you xo
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